Here are a few things your student may be experiencing as the end of the semester nears. Observe and listen to your student – there may be something on his or her mind.

  • Lack of initiative or worry about finding new friends or activities because it seems social groups and organizations are already set up (note: many opportunities still exist!)
  • Conflicts between roommates or friends as students settle into rhythm of the academic year
  • Excitement or anxiety about returning home for Thanksgiving or semester break; concerns about seeing changes among old friends, how things will be with family members, or dealing with a romantic relationship
  • The realization that some friends may not be returning next semester
  • Diversity issues as students begin interacting more with others who are very different from them
  • First-year students realizing academics are more difficult than they were in high school
  • Academic pressure due to procrastination; panic and cramming as exams and paper deadlines approach
  • Anticipating final exams and questioning their abilities
  • Short temper as stress mounts
  • Increased use of alcohol and drugs; problems from increased alcohol consumption
  • Religious/political conflicts as your student gets ready to return home after a semester of gaining different perspectives
  • Financial strain due to travel costs and holiday gifts
  • Job search stress for semester break