There is a seasonal ebb and flow when it comes to student issues.
Here are a few things your student may be experiencing as the end of the semester nears. Observe and listen to your student – there may be something on his or her mind.
- Lack of initiative or worry about finding new friends or activities because it seems social groups and organizations are already set up (note: many opportunities still exist!)
- Conflicts between roommates or friends as students settle into rhythm of the academic year
- Excitement or anxiety about returning home for Thanksgiving or semester break; concerns about seeing changes among old friends, how things will be with family members, or dealing with a romantic relationship
- The realization that some friends may not be returning next semester
- Diversity issues as students begin interacting more with others who are very different from them
- First-year students realizing academics are more difficult than they were in high school
- Academic pressure due to procrastination; panic and cramming as exams and paper deadlines approach
- Anticipating final exams and questioning their abilities
- Short temper as stress mounts
- Increased use of alcohol and drugs; problems from increased alcohol consumption
- Religious/political conflicts as your student gets ready to return home after a semester of gaining different perspectives
- Financial strain due to travel costs and holiday gifts
- Job search stress for semester break